Loving Yourself This Valentine's Day


Let's face it. Being a girl is really not all that easy. People just kinda expect women to fit into this idea; this image of big boobs and a nice butt but definitely no fat anywhere else. (God Forbid!)  Like that's reasonable. Have you guys noticed that everyone on the internet is flaunting something lately? I swear, you don't have to look very far anymore to see people's derriere or nipnaps all over your feed. And for most women who don't look like a Victoria's Secret Model it fucking sucks

With Valentine's Day coming up everyone should remember that they're beautiful and sexy too. Whether you're single or in a committed relationship do something special for yourself this year. Don't buy sexy lingerie to impress a man. Buy something lacey and feminine and beautiful to impress yourself. I have tiny boobs. I would probably be the president of the itty bitty no titty committee. Boobs are balls of fat and when you lose weight, I hate to tell you this but those balls of fat are usually the first to go. I used to have a nice C cupage of fat on my chest and now I'm lucky if I find a negative A to support my lady bits. And ya, half the time I'm super self conscious about it but every once in a while I buy myself a cute little lace bra and look in the mirror and remind myself, I'm sexy too. I can be beautiful and dainty and I don't have to look like everyone else to be that way. I don't need anyone to be attracted to me and I don't care if they are or are not. I want to love myself and be ok with the fact that I don't have boobs. 

So this Valentines Day, do something for yourself. Buy yourself a pretty dress or new underwear or rock a sports bra or those Double D's. Whatever body type you are or whether or not you have someone to share the holidays with, Love Yourself. Love that you have come this far in your journey, love that you are beautiful and can be whatever you want to be in life. Love that you're breathing and healthy and alive and appreciate yourself because that's so important these days; every day. Be beautiful by being just you and never having to justify being yourself to you. 

Happy Valentine's Day everyone. 

22 comments

  1. Love this post! I always buy myself a nice little goody on Valentine's Day.

    Connie | Sponsored by Coffee | Bloglovin’

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  2. Lovely post!! Looks like a really great bra!

    Candice | Beauty Candy Loves

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  3. Love this post! Bookmarking to come back to when I need bit of a pep talk!

    Dusty Foxes Beauty

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  4. I really love the message of this post and the honesty of it !

    Committed or single, do something special for yourself this year - just great :)

    Happy to have come across your blog, I look forward to future posts

    Hayley x

    http://thelifestylemenu.co.uk/

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  5. Such true words. Need to remember this more. xxx


    www.pink-purpledots.blogspot.com

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  6. Lovely post. I definitely agree that we all need to start loving ourselves more and putting ourselves first to a certain extent. We don't need the approval of anyone else! besides, being confident makes you so much more attractive to others :) x


    Sinead | sineaddreamingagain.blogspot.ie

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  7. Love the idea of this, and I have never treated myself to anything on Valentines before. But I do agree lingerie should be entirely for you, and there is nothing nice than a new bra!

    Annabel ♥
    Mascara & Maltesers

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  8. This is such a great and positive post, thank you so much for this! ♥
    Amy xx

    Perfect Imperfections

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  9. I love this post! Perfect timing and I love your call to treat yo self. I am for sure going to treat myself to something lovely this year!

    Miss Anna Rebecka

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  10. Such a lovely post! Hopefully more and more people learn to treat themselves starting this Valentine's!

    Catpacking | Beauty & Travel

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  11. Oh my goodness I cannot tell you how much I loved this post. You have such a lovely writing style and honestly this was just what I needed to read as I keep finding all of the body image stuff being shared on social media a little much at the moment. I never think to just buy pretty underwear for myself, and I'm definitely going to treat myself to something.
    Love Holly x


    www.thehollydays4.blogspot.co.uk

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  12. Love this post, Stefanie! I'm not in as good a shape as I have been before so I'll always buy myself pretty new underwear too, to boost my self-esteem a bit! x


    www.alwaysalicex.blogspot.co.uk

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  13. Nice post! I have small boobs too and I hated them because my sister has big boobs, so I was always comparing myself to her. I finally accepted them and I like them now :) I think every girl should by themselves something cute and sexy just for themselves, not to impress anyone - just to feel good! :)

    Jessica
    the.pyreflies.org

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  14. Incredible post, such a pleasure to read! Thank you <3


    Sharan | essehearts.com

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  15. yes! "love yourself" it's the first thing to do :)

    xoxo,
    Alice's Pink Diary

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  16. I loved reading this post and is so true what you are saying we shud all feel beautiful!

    much love xxx

    CHRISTINANISTA.COM

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  17. I loved reading this not only did I love the positive message but you had me laughing so much - I would happily be part of your 'itty bitty no titty committee' as I have no boobs either! hahaha. Thanks for sharing this post Hun, I've only just come across your blog but I am looking forward to more of your posts :) x

    http://www.sophielovesx.blogspot.co.uk

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  18. I agree, do something for yourself!! (I am defo lacking in the big boob department! ) I love reading posts like this, it inspires me and motivates me :) x

    LauraThinksAbout

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  19. such a great post! so so true xx

    http://www.alldeathbydiamonds.blogspot.co.uk

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